A lot of people choose to read passages from the Bible rather than a poem because they think that this is more appropriate. As much as you love someone, recalling the details of their life at the time of their death is an overwhelming responsibility.
Standing up in front of so many of her friends and family to say the final goodbye's helped me to finally accept that she'd gone, even though it was the hardest thing I'd ever had to do in my life. The best services mix memories, comfort and encouragement. Writing down the information will help you to observe the flow of your eulogy.
If you know the person very well and you would like to write it in your own words about that person, you could do that too. While it's probably not wise to crack jokes, a little humor will help to lift the spirits of those attending the services. A Celebrant is trained to help individuals create and present a personalized funeral, memorial or celebration of life service.
It takes time to grow in love, faith and hope. It is important that you avoid any statements or references that portray the deceased in a negative manner.
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