They have a lot of positive effect because something which is beautifully written and sensible expressed can actually have a soothing effect on the bereaving. There is a growing collection of funeral poems.
One detail that often escapes even the most thorough planner is to write an obituary. Since a death is always associated with a painful loss, poems should be in an uplifting and inspirational tone. Simple and soothing words acknowledging a loss, accompanied by a meaningful sympathy or condolence poem can touch a heart like nothing else can.
Try to avoid talking about the details of the death, and focus instead on the life of the deceased. Finally, a eulogy needs to be written as a speech, in a form that is easy to deliver. A poem you write for someone you know of might just bring the same reassuring message to other families who suffer through death.
Practice delivering your eulogy in front of a mirror or a friend in order that you can see if improvements or additional editing have to be made. Practice delivering your eulogy in front of a mirror or a friend in order that you can see if improvements or additional editing have to be made.