It may take some time before a person would be fully adept to create his or her own eulogy without needing any help, but if that person is a beginner, might as well check around these articles for useful tips. The level of emotion and grief in conjunction with the enormous details upon which to be decided can result in even greater turmoil.
If loved ones are left to make the decisions then choices need to be made during an already stressful and exhausting period of time. Delegate as many trivial tasks as you can to others in order to give yourself ample time to finish the major planning. In the event of the deceased having led a life that was terribly hard for them, or they were ill towards the end of their life, leave that part out.
A poem should be written subtly and ensure it is not too emotional. If the person who passed enjoyed the outdoors, maybe a memorial poem with colorful forest or nature-like imagery would speak to the audience, and properly pay tribute to the lost loved one. If you and the deceased were co-workers, then talk about how great he performed his job, his dedication to doing his work and his ambition to do well in his chosen career.
If you are gifted with the blessing and talent of writing poetry for the dead, share it. Remember to prepare and organize your thoughts.
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