Not everyone is going to feel the same way about the loved on that you have lost so the poems may seem irrelevant to them. You should always remember that the funeral is a way to celebrate their life, not their death.
Missing a loved one after death can be a difficult time. Going through some of the funeral poems with friends and family members really helps, some of the poems may make you laugh because they are such the complete opposite of the person you've just lost that you have a good laugh about it. And if you feel that the grief may overtake you, ask a friend or a family member to stand in and read your eulogy.
This will help you not only to gather all the information to be included or mentioned in the eulogy, but also to enable you to decide early on the tone your writing will take. This is a celebration of your loved ones life, you shouldn't feel that it is necessary to find poems which are too morbid, if you want something up beat and cheerful then do it. A Celebrant will honor a family's wishes and will present either a religious or non-religious gathering.
To help you get started review the sample obituaries in our newsletter to help you. In this case, it is incumbent on the family to simply put into motion the decisions already made by their loved one.
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